The evening starts elegant and ends with heels kicked off in the hallway. Ylang ylang and bergamot switch on the lights, then truffle brings something earthy, almost indecent, a hint that this flower never grew in the sun. Orchid and lotus wood keep the heart velvety, like a black dress rustling as you cross the room.

As the flame sinks into the wax, dark chocolate, vanilla, sandalwood and vetiver settle over the sofa like a warm shadow. Light it for dinner for two and let it burn long after dessert.